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Successful Women and the Sacred Whore

Sex. Touch. Love. This is one of women’s greatest power throughout history. Women—since Eve and throughout the Bible and every other religious and philosophical tradition—have used sex as power, both economic and healing. Sexual ritual…
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What is Coaching: How to Choose the Right Match

What is Coaching? A coach is a person who can help you figure out what you really want and tell you how to get there. You only know what you know. And if you think you know everything you’re probably 14 years old. By now you’ve figured…
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Manifesting Love is Tricky

Love is a tricky word. It has so many meanings and connotations that you would think the word is useless. It’s not of course, but it’s so laced with things that suck that I developed some issues around it that was blocking what I wanted…
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How to Make a Dream Board That Really Works

Dream Boards work. They just do. But, sometimes we can screw up the process by changing direction too many times. This is why I’ll never make a dream board halfway through the year. It’s not that it won’t work in June, or that it’s…
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THE Big Dream (The Naked Truth & Cover)

My memoir, The Year of YES! is coming out on Tuesday. THIS Tuesday. This is it. THE Big Dream. The Year of YES! is a real time, unfiltered, raw account of the year I said YES! to everything my Soul told me to do. It came on the heels of that…
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Online Date is Perfect Filter

I'm now dipping my toe in the dating scene. Literally, the last date I went on was a foot massage. I work from home and I go to church with menopausal lesbians, so online dating is the perfect place to meet men. Here's what I have learned…
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Change My Life: I Don't Want My Child To Ever Feel _____.

I don't want my child to ever feel . . . . . . bullied. . .  . unloved. . . . like they have to ______. . . . ugly. . . . not good enough to ______.  . . . left out.  . . . sexualized.  . . . objectified.  . . . scared. . . .…
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Law of Attraction & Relationships: Love Stretches Across the Whole Wide Universe

Sometimes I remember someone from way back, or think of someone across the entire planet from me, and I marvel at the feeling I get. I feel love from and for this person stretching thousands of miles. Maybe my grandma, an old lover. Perhaps…
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Soul Path: Wildee Time

I had one of the best palm readers in the country, Myrna Lou, come to my The Future is Bright; Let There Be Light party this last weekend. I wanted to mark the milestone of this bright shiny new chapter in my life: post-divorce and 39. Myrna…
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Law of Attraction & Relationships: Co-Parent & Wasband

I call my ex-husband my co-parent and my wasband. Co-parent is the term I prefer over single mom or baby daddy. I'm a co-parent. He is my co-parent. I don't like ex-husband. It has a negative connotation to it. It implies that we are in conflict…
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Change My Life: Calling Me a Single Mom is Unfair to Single Moms

Now that I'm divorced I suppose I could be called a "single mom." While I am single and I am a mom, I don't really enjoy the title "single mom." Mainly because it's not fair to real single moms. By which I mean the women out there who have…
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Unmarried Mothers; It's Immaculate

I came across an article, "An Unmarried Woman," in a borrowed Elle Magazine by Rebecca Traister. Evidently, women have turned their noses up at marriage. At least according to the conservative right. The column is all about how women are…